You might have heard some people saying they don't ever want to get married and the excuse they normally give is that they enjoying living their peaceful life and they don't want someone that will overturn things. I still heard someone today saying he would rather remain single or at worse get a baby mama who will bear him child(ren) on contract basis without any emotional attachment or commitment
The thing is this, there are still many marriages out there that still last. There are still people celebrating over 30 years of marriage so just because you know of someone who got married and the marriage actually collapsed barely a year is not a reason why you should be pessimistic about your own marriage
Always try to be careful and mindful of what you expose your mind to, especially now that bad news trends more than good news. First, work on your mindset and try to ignore the negativity of marriage you see on social media because most of these things only affect your views on marriage.
In fact, these days, many young people allow these things get into their heads, they then go into marriage with the wrong mindset and the marriage eventually become World War
There are still lots of good beautiful marriages out there and what you should tell yourself is that yours will be beautiful to. Also learn to choose wisely by watching out for the person's mindset and views on major aspects of life and marriage as a whole as these are the major red flags which people fail to realise until it gets too late. Look out for someone who does not only share your views but also someone who is going to be more than a best friend and partner.
With this coupled with love, you're good to go
I don't know if this post makes any sense
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